Thursday, July 22, 2010

Gardening and Plant Care

here are some websites that I found helpful and I hope to remember them for future use
I will add to this as I come across problems
plants we have at my house: Oyster plant, Spider plant, Prayer plant, Lucky Bamboo, Christmas Cactus, Heart-leaf Philodendron, Swiss Cheese Philodendron, Orchid, miniature palm, umbrella, Aloe Vera, Violet, few different small cacti





Oyster Plant - my oyster plant started acting weird a few weeks after I bought it. The bottom leaves started dying and it grew really tall. I found the problem and solution on this site...
http://en.allexperts.com/q/House-Plants-721/leaning-oyster-plant-2.htm

computer speed problem solver

the following was an email sent to me by a friend/computer wiz after I complained about having a really slow computer. If you just want to download one, pick the advanced system care, it does all sorts of things including defragmenting. This helped my computer... but my real problem seems to be that I just have too many things on it (tons of crochet patterns and pictures for fashion design inspiration from the internet). I am working on deleting things that I don't actually need, but it is a slow process :(


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Try these programs to help with your speed. They should help a lot. Replace whatever you use for security with the security program I've linked, it is the fastest on the market. The advanced system care is really good at basic pc tuneup work all at once. The smart defrag works better than the windows one, because you can tell it to optomize the defrag for fastest performance. The game booster also helps with speed, because you can turn it on and shut off anything unnecessary on your pc.

After you've installed them all, and run what you want to, hit the windows key and r at the same time. This will pull up the dialog for "Windows Run" type "msconfig" into the box and hit enter. What comes up are the basic configurations for windows startup. Select "programs" and turn off everything. Select "processes" and check the box that says "hide windows services" then turn off everything that is left. Restart your pc, and then run gamebooster. This should dramatically improve your performance.


http://download.cnet.com/Advanced-SystemCare-Free/3000-2086_4-10407614.html
http://download.cnet.com/IObit-Security-360/3000-8022_4-10967594.html
http://download.cnet.com/Smart-Defrag/3000-2094_4-10759533.html
http://download.cnet.com/Game-Booster/3000-18541_4-10913645.html?tag=mncol

Thursday, July 8, 2010

dealing with grandma (alzheimers and uses a walker)

This is a place for me to vent about my frustrations and hopefully get advice.

Here are the facts:
My grandmother will be staying with my family for a few months. She is usually in the care of my aunt, but we are giving my aunt a much needed break.

My grandmother suffers from alzheimers (stage 5 I think)
She also has bad knees, wich makes her have to use a walker.
She is incontinent for some reason (just urine). She can't be trusted to remember to put those incontinence pads in her panties so it was decided to take all of her panties and replace them with adult disposable diapers (this happened over a year ago).

Just so you know, I have learned to hold in my emotions (for the most part) and I don't yell at her or anything like that.

-----now for the rants---


I wonder if her incontenence is partly due to her lazyness. I understand her leaking a little or just not making it to the bathroom in time (she gave birth to 6 children and she is slow moving due to her bad knees), but she sits there for hours without even trying to get up and make it to the bathroom. When she does go, her diaper is full (sometimes full enough to leak).
My mother and I are trying to get her to get up and go to the bathroom about every 2 hours. I understand her not being able to remember to try to urinate every two hours, it's hard for my mother and I to remember to remind her. ...but when you feel like you have to pee, why not get up and make your way to the bathroom. Even if you don't quite make it, at least you tried.

I would rather crawl to get to a bathroom than have to use a diaper. If I had a broken leg, I would hop or crawl or even drag myself to a bathroom instead of using a diaper. I'd rather crawl up a flight of stairs to make it to a bathroom just to avoid the $$COST$$ of disposable diapers.

I think she just doesn't care.